At my age any human female over 15 and under 40 that notices that I am alive has: Daddy issues, Money issues, Drug issues, or mental health issues----Ray
Ray me boy-o do not be disheartened! You have discovered the secret to managing relationships with the tender sex: They ALL have snakes in their heads. The only path to success with them is finding a naive and non-cynical cutie to have your babies, stay with her and raise a family. Otherwise females are NOT to be engaged except as erotic companions or fwb. NO other options. Research the MGTOW movement.Best to you.
Please note the "AT MY AGE". I am past making babies, nesting or much of the rest of the great dance. ---Ray
Nice tush on 89 (if it's real) and 130.